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Philile Langa
Sep 19, 2021
In Questions & Answers
Hi everyone. Hope you are relaxed and flourishing. I just want to know how much aftercare features in your life. Not just with regards to sex, which is very important, but things like therapy. For example, when I could afford to go to a psychologist, she never dedicated time after our sessions to helping me "come down" from the session. I would leave therapy an emotional mess and take it out on my mother usually because she and I have a lot of bad history. I started to eat to make myself feel better, but that's not a healthy thing. And with sex, I've never let a partner care for me afterwards. Sex can be such a vulnerable act. Emotional aftercare is so important because of it. But I could never let myself open up to that aftercare.

Philile Langa

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